Vladimir Nabokov

NABOKV-L post 0004961, Wed, 29 Mar 2000 16:02:22 -0800

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From: Kandmleach@aol.com <Kandmleach@aol.com>
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>> I will add that the theme of incest is one of
>> the barriers that kept Lolita out of theaters, while plain old
pedophilia
>> (olderman lusting after young girl) is becoming a cultural norm.
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>Excuse me?
>Since when has paedophilia been defined as 'older man lusting after young
>girl?'
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>Paedophilia is the inappropriate desire for sex with very young
undeveloped
>children (like 4ft10in Lolita).
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>An 'older man' having sex with a physically mature girl of 13 or 15 or
17
>is exploitative certainly - but a 'paedophile'?
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>If we use the word this casually - as a kind of lazy shorthand for any
>abusive relationship, even if the victim is a teenager or older - then
the
>particular horror of what genuine paedophilia means is going to be
blurred
>to nothing - and this will benefit no one but the paedophiles themselves.
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>Karoline L
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