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Describing the family dinner in "Ardis the Second," Van Veen (the narrator and main character in VN’s novel Ada, 1969) says that Demon (Van's and Ada's father) sat next to Marina (Van's, Ada's and Lucette's mother) at the Praslin’s last Christmas: